If his parents or one of them orders him to obey Allah, to perform five prayers, to speak the truth, to pay a trust, or to do something that Allah or His Messenger has ordered, to stop wasting his wealth, and to forbid such things that Allah and His Messenger have also forbidden, then it is necessary for her to obey parents, and this obedience is also required when someone else is ordering her. When his parents are ordering him, then why should it not be obligatory?

If the husband orders to do haram or prevents him from doing something that Allah has ordered. Then, it is not permissible for the woman to obey him, as stated by the Prophet (P.B.U.H).

“There is no obedience to creation in disobeying the Creator.”

If the master orders his slave to disobey Allah, then it is not permissible to do so. How can a woman disobey Allah and His Messenger at her husband’s request? Indeed, every good comes from the obedience to Allah and His Messenger, and all evil is in disobedience to Allah and His Messenger.